Being in plays is fun. It’s also a big commitment. You have to be available for at least a couple hours at least 4-5 days a week. Depending on the show, this could be for up to 4-6 weeks. And then there’s the actual run. Some shows only go for a couple of weekends. Some run for months. There are two-show days, Sunday matinees, school performances, and your standard 8:00 performances. Where we live, it is often for low or no pay, unless you’re union. I’m not union. so when I say we’re doing it for the art, I’m serious.
Theatre has been my “thing” since I was in kindergarten. I have been studying, writing, working backstage, and performing since that age with few extended breaks. Even when I was pregnant, I was participating in staged readings and other projects. Since Ethan came along, however, it has been difficult for us to work on anything. Figuring out work and childcare isn’t easy. Trying to make sure that it’s “fair” – that one parent isn’t getting to do all sorts of projects and the other can’t even audition – is also frustrating.
On the one hand, I’m not really interested in committing to a full production for at least a few more months. While we’re in the middle of teething and trying to get Ethan to sleep through the night, it would just be too much to take on. Adam feels the same way. I am currently in a short play (a recreation of a seance from the 1880s in which I am playing a “spirit guide” – also known as a fraud!) and it has been a bit hectic trying to figure out how I can get to rehearsals. Adam’s schedule allows him to stay home for a couple of the evenings, but not all of them. My brothers-in-law can help for a couple of other nights. Two different friends offered to babysit. My mom might be able to take one or two. Without one usual babysitter or Adam consistently home at a reasonable hour, it is quite the headache to figure all of this out!
Even so, I’m so glad I get to participate in this show. It has been a long time since I have done any projects that require an actual rehearsal schedule – the last time was in September of 2011! It’s nice to be in a “real” show. I just hope it isn’t going to come at the cost of Ethan’s rest and well-being. He really thrives on routine, and I worry about the disruption. We’ll have to wait and see how all this pans out.